Okay, I suspect the answer is thanks but no thanks, I already have enough struggles in my life. Well, if that’s the case, fine. Thank you for your politeness but I’m gonna give you a few more anyway. They might make you scream and pull even more precious hairs out of your head. If you have any hair that is of course. And heck, some of you might even thank me for them later on.
Give Me The Finger (no, not THAT finger silly!)
Put either hand down flat, on a flat surface. Bend only your middle finger so it’s kinda tucked under your palm, leaving the other fingers and your thumb as they are. Can you do it? Great. But that’s not the hard part.
Keeping your hand in the above position, try lifting just your thumb. Now try lifting just your index finger (the one beside the thumb). And now just your pinkie. Can do all those too? Awesome. So can most people though.
Now … try lifting your ring finger (beside pinkie). Can you do that???
Nope, neither can I. And this is why.
Synchronized Air Swimming
Sit on a chair. Lift your right leg in the air and make clockwise circles with it. Can you? Yep, so can I.
Now keep doing that and also lift your right arm into the air and try to make the number 6 with it. Can you do that too? Sure, I can too. BUT … did you notice that your leg started to change direction while you were doing it?
So try it again and try really really really hard not to let your leg change direction. Are you a synchronized air swimmer with your right arm and right leg?
Neither am I. Here’s why.
Give Them ‘The Look’. But Oppositely.
If you’re a parent like me, you probably have a look that your kids know means trouble. For them of course. Like when they’re fighting with each other, forgot to take the garbage out, or gosh forbid asked you for money for something.
My look tends to involve the raising of just my left eyebrow, along with a slight tilting of my head forward, down, and to the right. My oldest is 24 so I’ve gotten pretty good at it.
Can you raise just one eyebrow like me? Terrific – we’re parenting cohorts in the minority! Most folks can’t lift one eyebrow at a time.
But I can’t do it oppositely. Meaning I can’t do the whole head tilt thing but to the left, while at the same time raising only my right eyebrow. Can you just raise your other eyebrow???
No link for why I/we can’t, you can Google that yourself this time. But here’s a link to how you can train yourself to raise just one eyebrow at a time. Just in case you noticed your kid didn’t replace the toilet paper – AGAIN!, and you’re waiting for them to come home from school. You’ll be ready for them this time.
Back to those folks who might actually thank me now for this post …
Do you have some challenges your facing in your life today? Yeah, me too and they can be pretty bloody awful some days.
Did you forget about them just for a minute or two while you read this post? Yeppers, I forgot about mine too while I was writing it.
And that was the whole intent of this silly piece anyway you know. Just a good gentle reminder for any who care to have it that when we think about positive, fun, and yes even silly things, it distracts our minds. It’s like a breath of fresh air to refuel us with new life and energy to actually go on and cope with, deal with, or even solve the problems of our day.
I have a few ‘go to’ videos on YouTube I visit when I need to do this. Here’s one of my favourites. It’s old so you may have seen it before too but I know I can’t get through the short 1 minute and 4 seconds of it without starting to laugh. And laughter is the best medicine in my not-so-humble opinion.
In response to today’s Daily Prompt – Struggle
Image source: superhua user on flickr.com, CC2.0 Generic
This was so great. Thank you!
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You’re very welcome, glad you enjoyed it My life …
Marianne
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OK–I can lift my ring finger on my left hand, but not my right. That air swimming thing–no way! I can give ‘the look’ with my right eyebrow but not my left. That YouTube video–the absolute BEST!!! And I was giving you the look, Marianne! 😀
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I’ll take ‘the look’ Lois. Cuz I’m pretty sure at some point in reading / doing the post, you smiled. And that’s what I was after. 🙂
Marianne
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You got it!!
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Thanks for making me smile, even try the hand one.
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You’re very welcome. Thanks for letting me know my mission was accomplished. 🙂
Marianne
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That video is one of my favorites too.
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Something about those babies giggling eh? Does it to me every time. 🙂
Marianne
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I enjoyed (but didn’t try) everything about your post today. I remember playing the babies giggling video for my own sons a few years back when the video broke, and how they laughed right along with those little cuties! What a happy memory for me. Thanks!
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You’re oh so welcome Wendy. Thrilled it brought back such a happy memory for you. That just made me smile. Big time.
Marianne
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I have had a terrible day, so thanks for the clever distraction. If you get a chance perhaps you could post at the Salon on Wednesday.
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Sorry to hear the day was difficult for you Bernadette. Hope it got better as the hours passed.
And yeah, I forgot you did that Salon thing. I’ll try to remember to head over to it tomorrow!
Thanks for the note. Blessings to you my friend … Marianne
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Thanks 🙂
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You are very welcome. 🙂
Marianne
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Thanks for this! What a creative and lovely way for me to truly get distracted. I really did laugh and smile and forget about my troubles reading this. That air swimming was so fun, hahaha.
Have a good one! 🙂
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Thanks Fatimah. Happy to find out you did get a laugh, and a distraction!, out of it. And yeah, isn’t the air swimming one good? I have tried countless times to do it but just can’t. Blows my mind each time.
Thanks again, hope you’re having a kindness-filled kinda day … Marianne
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You are a trip woman! Keep us smiling with Quad Laughter, I needed that today, thank you.
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Yeppers a tripper I am. And you’re welcome for the smile. My thanks to you in return for my smile reading this!
Marianne
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This was hilarious. It has definitely been a challenging day so some laughter was MUCH appreciated.
I, too, have a look for my kids. I have to use it so often that I blame them for the wrinkles in my forehead. I can’t lift on one eyebrow!
I can lift my lip up like Elvis though. When I was six, I had a friend whose brother could do it and so I tried and tried until I could! -Amy
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I blame ALL my wrinkles on my kids, not just the forehead ones haha! Throw all the grey hairs in there too for good measure. 🙂
You can do the lip though eh? Very cool. You should write a post about that. With selfie pics of course!
Marianne
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And those baby giggles…..the reason I love my job🌟🌟🌟thanking my lucky stars they created day care providers 😊
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Nothing beats a giggle out of a baby! And I thank my lucky stars for day care providers like you too. They took care of the most valuable things in the world to me – my own kids. 🙂
Hope you’re having a kindness-filled kinda day … Marianne
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This is really fun! Thanks for these challenges. Gave me a much awaited-break=)
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You’re very welcome Louise. I’m happy to know you found them fun. So did I – after I got past the frustration of why I couldn’t do them haha! 🙂
Wishing you a kindness-filled kinda day … Marianne
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Awesome post! 🙂 🙂
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Thanks Unebelle!
Blessings … Marianne
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Very wise and well put…..
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Thanks doc, glad you liked it … Marianne
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Yes, more struggles is definitely what I need. They make life weird, silly and sometimes sad but without them… Well, come to think about it, that wouldn’t be that bad. 😉
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Guess we have to be careful what we wish for eh? All a matter of perspective I figure. Can’t live with ’em, can’t live without ’em. 🙂
Thanks for the visit and the note. Hope you’re having a kindness-filled kinda day … Marianne
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you know simple ways to reach hearts… glad i came across this post marianne..! your post made me smile big time. love 🙂
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That’s a sweet thing to say maybeiamsure, thank you for that. Your comment made me smile big time too!
Blessings … Marianne
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🙂
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I love your conversational style! Thank you for the interest in my post and I look forward to following this blog. It is just great.
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Thank you kindly transcribingmemory. Good to know I even have some sort of ‘style’ – I like that word! 🙂
Thank you for your interest in my blog. I hope you will enjoy your future visits along the side of the road.
Wishing you a kindness-filled kinda day … Marianne
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To you, too!
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Great post
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Thank you nancyongom. Happy to know you liked it.
Wishing you a kindness-filled kinda day … Marianne
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Thanks a lot marianne
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Haha, it was a struggle, but it was fun! 😅 Thanks for sharing!
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Happy you found the fun in it Joanne!
Hope you’re having a kindness-filled kinda day … Marianne
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Thanks! I hope you’re having a wonderful day as well. 😃
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That was Jawsome ,as you made us laugh 😀
Handsome, as you made us work with our fingers
Headsome, oh you made us work our head, right and left! ❤
Now i give you a task- Keep your head straight up. can you get all your hair stand up without the help of your hands and even gel? I couldn't. Can you? :p
Thanks a lot for the laughter.
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Haha Journey Of Roo, now you got me laughing! 🙂
Marianne
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